No love whipping is not just a phrase, it's a movement. It's a call to action for those who have been silenced by the societal norms that dictate how we should express our emotions and desires. The truth is, many of us have been conditioned to believe that pain and pleasure are mutually exclusive, but I'm here to tell you that's not true.
I've seen people get hurt, physically and emotionally, all in the name of 'love' or 'passion'. But what about self-love? What about taking care of ourselves before we try to take care of someone else?
It's time for us to reevaluate our priorities and focus on building a culture that promotes healthy relationships and mutual respect.
I used to think that I needed someone else's validation to feel worthy. But the truth is, I'm already worthy just by existing. No one can take that away from me.
It's not about finding someone who completes you; it's about becoming whole on your own. When we focus on building ourselves up instead of tearing others down, that's when the real magic happens.
I know it's scary to break free from toxic patterns and societal expectations, but trust me, it's worth it.
Self-love is not selfish; it's necessary. When we prioritize our own well-being, we become better partners, friends, and family members.
I'm not saying it's easy to love ourselves first. But I am saying that it's essential. We can't pour from an empty cup, so let's fill ourselves up with self-love and compassion.
Remember, you are enough just as you are. No one needs to complete you; you're already whole.